The Hermit

Frequently Asked Questions

Short answers for short attention spans.

Do you show my exact location?

No. We only show approximate distance. You pick a neutral public venue to meet.

What’s a “hermit level”?

A playful scale from 1 (outgoing) to 5 (max introvert). It helps set expectations.

Will you make me talk to people?

Absolutely not. You’re in control. Say “no thanks” with extreme prejudice.

Is this a dating app?

Nope. Think: low-key hangouts. If romance happens, we claim zero responsibility.

Do I have to fill out a long profile?

Minimal profiles only: nickname, hermit level, a few interests, short notes.

How do pings work?

Send a quick intro (“Coffee near downtown?”). Keep it short, agree fast, hang out briefly.